Dating in Bangalore is more complex than you would think and this story delves into the many experiences that people have had.
Dating in Bangalore is changing as the landscape of the city changes and its denizens change with it. As a city that is constantly on the move and has a spiralling migrant population, Bangalore also has a lot of singles who are looking for dates. With its burgeoning young population, the city is seeing a surge of interest in dating as seen in several popular dating apps.
Pragya Arora, a relationship coach on coto, an emotional wellness platform that helps people via live consultations 24*7 shares her thoughts:
“As a psychologist working closely with young people or Gen Z, I’ve closely witnessed how dating trends in Bangalore are fast-paced and ever-evolving. But beneath the surface, there’s a quiet loneliness. I often find myself listening to stories that start with excitement but end in confusion. The dating scene here is vibrant, full of exploration and hope. But somewhere between the right swipe and the late-night texting, something gets lost. Most people I meet aren’t struggling to find someone; rather, they’re struggling to be seen. It’s not a lack of dates but a lack of depth. Dating apps have made it easier to connect, but harder to feel truly connected. Ghosting, breadcrumbing, and “situationships” have become common patterns, often leaving individuals questioning their worth. There’s also a subtle fear that shows up often: the fear of being “too much.” Many clients come in wondering if wanting clarity, commitment, or emotional safety makes them needy. What I try to help them see is that their needs aren’t wrong rather they’re just human.At the same time, I’ve seen a beautiful shift. Therapy is giving people the language to understand themselves and their patterns. Terms like attachment styles, emotional regulation, and boundary-setting are making their way into dating conversations. People are beginning to pause, reflect, and choose more consciously. Dating in Bangalore is no longer just about finding the “right one.” It’s about finding yourself first. That, in itself, is a quiet revolution. And I a, m here for it”.
Read the full story that first appeared in Our Bangalore dated April 12- 18, 2025 here:
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